It makes a difference
Sep 7th, 2008 by Ollie Lind
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I read a quote the other day that got me to thinking.
“Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.”
William James
How many of us do little things each day with the thought “It doesn’t matter. No one will notice.”
I was trying to park at Bondi Junction this morning. Finding a parking spot there, even on a Sunday, is akin to finding the crown jewells. (even paid parking, which this was)
I found a spot and started reversing into the spot. It was impossibly tight because the car in front had taken up more that one spot. It was a black, dishevelled vehicle, the driver’s rear side mirror was held on by duck tape. The driver was still in the car, apparently waiting for something. He had dark glasses, a black beard and a nondescript air about him.
I was stuck halfway into the space, waiting for the passing traffic to clear so I could try again to fit in. He saw me and immediately started his car and moved forward. I smiled and waved to him. When I had parked I got out to feed the parking meter. He came up to me, a strange look on his face. He was unsmiling and I felt as if he wanted to abuse me.
“Doesn’t take much.” His words were clipped and uttered from the side of his mouth.
“Pardon?” I said.
“To help.”
I grinned. “You’ve made my day my friend.”
He nodded and turned away, intent on his own business.
I don’t think he realized the significance of what he said. Every action we take, either in our own universe or interacting with others reverberates, The ripple effect is, I believe the invisible fabric of our civilization.
That sounds a little lofty, but I sincerely believe it. We have, as human beings, an immense power, the power of our intention, which is behind every action.
Use your power well and life suddenly becomes a better, brighter place. Someone I know well is currently helping his sister, who has recently been diagnosed with cancer. This next statement is to him.
John, it may be desperate and despair laden at the moment and the future uncertain but, your selfless actions have given her an immense certainty and comfort. She is secure in your love and, after all, what more can anyone ask for?
Please remember, everyone, that your actions DO make a difference. Make that difference worthwhile.
Live well,
Ollie Lind